我以为我会生气,可是令我惊奇的是我一点也不介意。可能是早已看开了,可能是我已放弃,也学会了面对现实。
很多时候烦恼是自己找来的,不知不觉就为了一些人或事生气,搞得自己很不开心,结果那些令你生气的人一点也不在乎你的感受。
其实我很不喜欢说一套做另一套的人,这种人应该叫做虚伪吧。
我一直是那个被蒙在谷底的人,到底发生设么事,突然之间没人跟我联络,如果这是你们全部人的决定,我也就不勉强了。
朋友就做到这里为止吧,再此画下修字符,以后我不会再因为你们而不开心,也不会去理会你们的事了。
经过了这些事之后,再度让我证实了一件事,这世界上没有永恒的友情。所为旧的不去新的不来吗。
我告诉自己做人不要太贪心,我已得到了世界上最爱我的老公,有个幸福美满的家庭,生活环境也很好,应该别无所求了。
面对未来还有即将出世的宝宝,我的生活虽然少了一些朋友但也是很多姿多彩的。
对啦,凡是看开一点,烦恼也就少一点,生活也会快乐一点咯!
哈哈哈,好像是自我安慰一样。
我这个脑袋啊,想通了,这次我是终于看开了哦!
6 comments:
Noelle, take it easy ok. U are not the only one who have this kindof feeling. Why dun you think it in another way? everyone have their own life, busy with their own life. You are very busy also, with the baby on the way...at least u have a caring and loving hubby which not everyone have ok. Cheer up!!
I believe everything takes two hands to clap.I always feel that nobody has the right to judge anyone because each human being has their own way of thinking.And if you judge a person with your own way of thinking or just by looking at things in the surface,it is very unfair to him/her.
Genuine friends should be open enough to talk things out rather than keeping silent and wait for cracks to form in the friendship.
hey Noelle, do take it ez ya.
frens come & goes as humans alwiz go thru difference phrases & meeting new ppl. whether or not they r ard u is not realli dat important.
most importantly is dat u hv a loving hubby & great family who love n care for u no matter wat n they won't leave u either. Cheer up coz with this great ppl around life is even better rite? ;)
do take care & get well soon coz wif bb inside she wans her mummy to be happi too one. :) Cheer up!!
actually alot of ppl carry masks when doing things or treating people....
maybe we ourselves oso will do that but without us knowing oso....
but then i sort of agree no frenz are forever unless those who have been through thick n thin with you....
most important thing is u got a lovely husband and a beautiful baby on its way....i dunno wat happen but just here to ask Cheery Up Mummy!!
hi noelle, happen to read your blog and got your blog add from my girl's tagboard. anyway, there are alot of different kind of pple in this world. pple who appreciates you and pple who take you for granted. just like me, recently i've been used by a friend of mine, we are like blood sisters, end up? haaas she is too blinded by money and hurt pple around her. tell yourself that you ve did your best as friend, since they dont appreciate its ok. you didn't lose them, but they ve lost a good friend like you! so cheer up and have a happy pregnancy period ba!!
At least now you know your friends true colors...
Forever friends do exist... but you have to open your eyes BIG enoough to find them..
Just be glad how you realized earlier..
You best friend is still the one who loves you... your hubby and your family...
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