I wanted to post many photos taken weeks and weeks ago, about restaurants, about food, about the places I went to and most of all about Natalie. Just when I was about to do all that, my personal lap top got into a major hardware corruption and was sent to emergency ward for one whole week. Now it is resting at home and I have to restore all the programs as it's the stock version now... It is such a hassel to re load everything and definitely going to take me a few hours to get it all reinstall. My office laptop is "highly" secured so there are too many restrictions on the internet.
Last night Rita (my maid) feedback to me that the other maid was angry that she spent too much time taking care of Natalie and did not help out in the housework. She even screamed at her and commented that taking care of baby is a WASTE OF TIME and that is not work. Doing housework is work, baby should put in child care centre. She is jealous that Rita carries Natalie around doing nothing, play "baby can read" vcd and watch with Natalie, play with Natalie... That indonesian maid got really angry and jealous, now whenever she doesn't complete her job she will push all the blame to my maid. She told my mum one day that the house is too big and she has too many things to do, Rita always takes care of baby and never help her!
The problem with her is she doesn't has the right to command my maid to do her housework. I engaged my maid to look after Natalie and both maids has their fair share of housework. The indonesian maid only in charge of the ground floor and cooking. My maid on the other hand has to clean both 2nd and 3rd floor, at the same time takes care of Natalie.
I am super PISSED off when that Indonesian said that taking care of baby is a WASTE OF TIME! Luckily for me, Rita is very understanding and she has bonded well with Natalie, she on the other hand was also offended by the remarks.
I really don't know what to do with this maid, if I were to confront her, she will vent her anger at my maid when we are not around.
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Me too!!! Everyday have to tahan their craps. My maid and my brother's maid can't get along well... Now whenever we ask the old maid to look after Hilda... dunno she purposely or what... Hilda sure cry and struggle to find us! Hilda since then not as close as last time to the maid. She didn't even wanna call the maid name only call the new maid name! Sad... I can do nothing but change her after this "no maid" season... now their hari raya... can bring maid in
noelle, i know that you trust your maid but i want to share my sis's story with you.
my sis had 2 maids in the past. when the 2nd one came, we thought that she was better than the 1st maid as she has 2 children(meaning that she knows how to handle babies).
the maid and my sis's baby will come to my mum's place from the morning till afternoon so that my mum can monitor the maid and also let the maid help out with some housework at my mum's place (cos she is quite old).
but after some time, my sis decided to give the maid more freedom by letting the maid and baby go back home earlier. the maid would then bring the baby to the playground downstairs and she would be chatting with other maids and not looking after the baby.
my mum saw and told my sis. but my sis was too trusting and did not believe in what my mum said. only my sis's neighbour told my sis that she saw the maid chatting with other maids and not looking after the baby, then my sis realised that the maid is not so good afterall.
the maid even went to get a handphone w/o informing my sis. and when my sis went to secretly check the handphone, she realised that the maid was msging guys. can you imagine the horror? the maid could have brought men back to the house while the baby was sleeping! hence she sent the maid back.
anyway, i am not trying to sow discord or what, just want to tell you that you should never fully believe your maid unless there are other people to verify what the maid said is true. and also to have someone to monitor the maid.
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